The following transcript is an exact conversation between a friend of mine and a random girl at a baseball game.
Friend - Hey after the game we are heading to the Flats, want to join?
Random Girl - Ok, but you have to pinky swear not to rape me.
Friend - Haha
Random Girl - No, I'm serious.
I am fairly certain the pinky swear is the worst of all anti-rape methods. I think the only method worse than that is to roofie yourself and play dead.
I'm not making light of rape - I am just hoping that girls understand that they aren't a pinky swear away from safety. "No means no" does not have a pinky swear clause that I'm aware of. What an extremely serious issue to simplify down to a pinky swear. It's like taking a pinky swear from North Korea about their nuclear weapons.
But even beyond that - who brings up rape to a guy they're flirting with. I felt like my friends and I were the worst people on earf that this poor girl wouldn't even talk to my buddy without a pinky swear for safety. I mean we aren't the best looking guys in the world but I can promise we aren't THAT sleezy.
A promise isn't enough?
How about a pinky swear?
11 comments:
Do pinky swears mean nothing to you??????
I'm guessing the round of 'rock/paper/scissors' you played to see who gets to stick what in her first MAY have tipped her off.
Next time, keep the game to the men's room.
Helpful tip.
Funny, funny.
I got a murderer to pinky swear not to kill me. Then we got ice cream and played with puppies.
Don't underestimate it.
Lol, Moog! Seriously, a pinky swear? Oh, there are some f-ed up broads out there.
Oh, pinky swears totally work. You can't break that.
I swear.
I pinky swear.
I swear, people are s.p.e.c.i.a.l.
also? I keep getting your posts late in my feed, then 2-3 at a time
greader sucks today
Pinky swear only makes guys wanna rape you.
Why? It's cute right? Pinky swear?
$100 says random girl is into rape fantasies.
I'm just saying.
Maybe she THOUGHT she was being funny/witty...Either way. Weird.
Another trick girls use if a guy they aren't interested in is flirting with them, make a comment that won't go over well...
but she came with, so I guess she wasn't doing that.
i suppose if you bring things up first, the chances of it being sprung on you are less... i mean, bring up how dis-interested in rape you are, and the chances that he'll use rape to try to impress you will most likely diminish.
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